Theresa Porche Jael Duinkerke came into the world and into our family on 12.11.10 at 8.05 pm. It was an eventful day, the day that she was born. I had rung her birth mother in the morning to find out how she was doing and she said, the baby will come today, but I'll ring you back later to pick me up. She didn't want to wait in the hospital all day. Well, when she finally rang, at 6pm (her waters broke around 10am), we went down the bumpy and slippery road to the area she lives. Now, Solomon Island women don't make a lot of noise when they give birth. The only sign that she was having a contraction was that she would rub her back and close her eyes! And that was happening fairly regularly on the way to the hospital. Jair didn't know whether to drive faster, and get there quicker, or drive slower, because of the bumps, the baby might just pop out!
We got to the hospital maybe just before 7pm and she waited in the corridor of the labour ward before a nurse was free to check her out. She was ushered straight into the delivery area. When Theresa first came out, the umbilical cord was around her neck so she was blue and wasn't
breathing. I was praying and praying, "Lord please give her breath." And then I heard her cry and it was the most beautiful sound.
I looked at my watch and it was 8:05. Eventually I snuck out to tell Jair and then he came in as well, to see his daughter. After he went out to buy some food and milo for the birth mother (the hospital doesn't provide anything), we went home for the night.
Saturday we spent going in and out, hoping we could take her home, getting food for the birth mother, getting hot water (yes, they didn't even have water to bath the babies there), and eventually going back home to spend the final restful night in a long
while.
Sunday we arrived at the hospital just before 10am and they had already recieved permission to go. I paid for her little baby record book. Inside was the birth certificate, with all the details filled in except her name. Yay. We first went to the birth mother's house to drop her off, let the whanau have cuddles with Theresa and chat about having a custom ceremony to officially culturally hand her over.
The birth mother left her clothes on the washing line at the hospital so Jair went back with her and her sisters to get the clothes. I waited at the house with Theresa. So after quite some time we were able to get into our car, travel back over that awfully bumpy road to our house. When we got here, all the locals at the base ran over to see the new baby, and our journey as parents began!
